Free behaviour quiz
Quiz: Does My Cat Love Me?
10 questions about everyday behaviour to understand how much your cat is attached to you.
Does your cat give you slow blinks (slow, deliberate eye blinks)?
Frequently asked questions about cat affection
How can I tell if my cat really loves me?
Signs of feline love are often subtle: the slow blink, rubbing against you (scent marking), purring in your presence, following you, or sleeping near you. A cat that shows you their belly is giving you absolute trust. Feline love rarely manifests in showy gestures — it's read in everyday small things.
My cat never purrs — does that mean they don't love me?
No. Purring is an individual behaviour — some cats purr rarely or not at all, regardless of their affection. Look for other signals: lying near you, half-closed eyes when looking at you, following you around. The absence of purring doesn't mean the absence of love.
Why does my cat slow-blink at me?
The slow blink is the feline equivalent of a warm smile. It's one of the clearest affection signals a cat can send. You can respond in kind: gently blink back, and they'll understand you're returning the trust signal.
My cat gently bites me — is that a sign of love?
Yes, light bites with no aggressive intent (love bites) are a sign of affection and play. However, if the bite is accompanied by flattened ears and a twitching tail, that's an irritation signal — stop stimulating.